Truth....

Many a times we know what is the truth but don't want to face it.. Why?? What stops us from facing that truth of which we are so scared of???

May be it's the acceptance of the truth.. We don't want to accept what we are thinking will actually happen and we don't even do what-if analysis of the same as we don't want to face it... Well, to be true, it is applicable for my case!!

I know whats the truth and I know that it had to happen one day.. But that day will be today I didn't know and yes, I was not prepared for it. So, what do I do when I listens to it and when I face it..

Hmmm.. First Option: Maybe talk to friend.. so I start searching for my friend with whom I can talk.. Search began at afternoon within few mins and ended after hours as someone is busy with something and someone is too happy about something and I don't want to make them part of my sadness... Second Option: Cry and think over it.. Well, I don't want to cry about it as this was expected and if I will cry I will become more weak.. Third Option: Forget that something like that happened.. Naah.. if it was too easy to forget then why I would have cared about it.. Fourth: Accept the truth and party.. Yes, that's what I did..

I accepted the truth that love doesnt mean getting all the happiness you ever desired but it also means sacrifice to see your love happy forever and I wished him luck and partied whole night!!!!

Today I have learnt one more thing, to accept anything in your life, I need one thing and that is happiness within myself and yes,I have found it... :)

New Year Resolution...

It's a new year.. it's a new starting.. everyone wishes the year to be filled with happiness and love and most of us decide to have a new year resolution..

Well, what I don't understand is why do people take resolution??? I tried taking resolution once or twice but by the end of the month, I forgot what it was all about!!

What's so big about it anyways!!! What I think is that resolution can be taken any time of the year.. We should not wait for new year to mark a beginning.. It is never too late to begin anything.. It's just that you should have that zeal and enthusiasm in you to continue on what you want to do..

Mark a beginning any time you think you should.. One should not wait for new year to take a resolution and work on it.. Just like new year brings an enthusiasm and energy, every day is also marked by rising sun... Be the one to rise everyday and follow your dreams then waiting for something to make you think what actually you want to do!!

When letters turn into pages....

Well, it's long time since we have written letters on paper to our friends and family. e-mail and calling give us no space to write letters for the ones we care about. But, letters have their own charm.. There cannot be anything great than someone writing letter for you instead of e-mailing or telling it on phone..

No matter when the letter was written, it is something very precious. I still carry those letters which my friends wrote to me when i was kid. It's memorable and it's fun to read those as well. Glance at some few lines and then you get nostalgic.. Well, that's the power of letter!!!

But, what happens when the letter you write after putting in days and nights effort just turn into mere pages which the other person don't care about!! It definitely not feels good. I remember, I asked one of my friend about the letter I wrote and the he said, "Ohh!! Those pages...". It was one of the moments when I thought that people who themselves can't write a letter, do they have any right to call my letter just a bunch of pages.. Definitely not!!!

Repect the letter that someone has written it for you. It's something special someone has given you. There are very few person who are going to write letters for you.. Everyone is not lucky enough to have someone writing letter to them!! It's rightly said, "Every Dark Cloud has a Silver Lining, Every rough patch in life has a little shining."

It's time to make new memories!!!!

Many a times, we remember old days and laugh on it, smile on those good old days... but there are also some days which were good and now those memories bring tears in your eyes.. Isn't it?

I guess most of us have our own story for the same and sometimes we want to recall those days and sometimes not, but ultimately it all ends in the same way.. tears.. yes by crying or by introspecting.. Either ways I think we hurt ourselves by allowing nobody else but oneself to hurt himself/herself again. Is this correct?

No, it is not. Instead of thinking about the times which bring tears why can't we make new memories that can bring a warm smile on ours as well as our friends face. Why can't we do something that can make others smile or can make someone elses day? Of course we can, it's just we need to go and try it out and I am sure this will not be that difficult. After all memories are meant to make you smile when you look back not to ruin your future by thinking about past!

Make new memory everyday, make someone smile, make someone's day!! Theres no bigger happiness than to see our own friends, family and our heart smile! Cheers to life!!!

Tu hi to meri dost hai...

Sometimes, life is not what we expected it to be. We change our decisions because of others happiness and do things which we never expected that we will do.

I am lucky enough, I should admit that I always had someone on my side to console me and to see me when I needed support. We all go through some kind of transition phase and it becomes so difficult to pass through it that we cry, we rethink our decision and we try to work out each and every thing possible when a relationship starts breaking. But what if the other person has moved on and you are still standing there and waiting for him??? It just feels terrible...

Recently I saw something like this and I must say that it was hard to see her struggle through it. But one thing I really appreciate is her friends were there for her whenever she needed them. They were just a call away!!! And in the process of transition she also met her long lost friends who cared for her the way they used to care and told her that how important she is and what it means to be her friend...

The very thought of her friend not only kept her happy but also helped her in forgetting about her love and also made her understood how worth she is... It was rightly said that, "One day Love asked Friendship,"why are you in the world when i am here to take care of my love?" Friendship smiled and said,"to spread smiles where u leave tears". "

Friends do everything for you. They might not talk to you frequently because they know you are fine. And when you are not fine, they say,"tu hi to meri dost hai...."

The way she received her “Valentine Day’s Gift”

This is a story of girl who was living far away from her love. She got up in the morning and thought the door bell is going to ring soon and soon there will be bouquet of flowers from my valentine, telling that how much he loves me. The bell didn’t ring and soon it was time to go to office.

At office, she saw bouquets on her friends table with cards, chocolates. She felt very depressed thinking how he can forget to send a gift for me. She calls him up and asks him where her gift was? He says, don’t worry sweetheart, you will receive the best valentine gift anyone could have ever got!!! And the gift will be just like you and something that you like you a lot. She asks him whether it’s chocolate and when he confirms the same she feels elated and gets back to work.

At valentine’s eve, she sees her friends getting ready and to go out with their valentine and she waited eagerly for her gift. She thought that he might have said to make me feel good and what difference does it make if I don’t get a gift. I know he loves me and that’s more than enough.

Next day, one of their common friend, comes to her table and asks her to accompany him for coffee. She comes with him and they both talk about work, projects and current news of office. Then out of the blue her friend says, I have something to give you which are due since yesterday. Suddenly there was a spark in her eyes and she says where my chocolate is??? He gives her a big pack of chocolate, a chocolate she has never seen before and she liked it a lot. And then he says this is not your gift, your gift is here and then he takes out a beautiful opal pendant and says do you want to talk to him. Tears start flowing through her eyes and as she was trying to control herself he says he is on line, talk to him.

Throughout her walk right from office till the time she got her gift, he was online on her friend’s cell and was listening to each and every word as she spoke and then he said, “Happy Valentines Day, my love.”
No matter where you are, you are always loved the way you were loved!!!

Attractive or Beautiful????

Many a times I really wonder what does it mean when one says that you look beautiful?? Beautiful means something that is aesthetically pleasant or something that soothes your mind or sight... but does that mean that by looks one becomes beautiful??? I think, no!!!

When you see someone and say that she is beautiful, you are making a wrong comment. Beauty is not what you see. Beauty actually lays inside the person, inside his/her heart. If looks defines beauty then what is attractiveness!!

Your looks, your appearance cannot define the how beautiful you are. What defines your beautifulness is your heart, your warmth and what you are. You might not look attractive but it is you and your heart that is beautiful.

So, next time when one says.. You look beautiful.. Let me mind you it may mean that you are looking attractive.. Because you were beautiful yesterday, you are beautiful today and you will remain beautiful tomorrow!!!