Tuesday, April 15, 2008

U, Me aur Hum....

U, Me and Hum(We).... These three words can easily describe a relationship. With the usage of these words it can be easily known that how is the relationship between two people. But how does that transition happens and how we change the usage of these words??? Lets see that...
When we are single, its only about being myself. It's always about my life, my ambitions, my thoughts and my actions. We care more of our needs, likes and dislikes than caring about others. But, when we start liking or rather loving anyone, we take care of his/her interests, atleast at the initial stages of the relationship. So, from "Me", we transform into "U" and our world starts revolving around "U". As time flies, "U" is tranformed into "Hum" as both starts understanding each other and interests of both are taken care. Or after being in a relationship for so long, habits, likes and dislikes becomes same. So, this is all about "U", "Me" aur "Hum".
But, when we are "Hum", then why do we fight? The reason is "Hum" takes care of "U" very well and when anything goes wrong "Hum" doesnt want to become "Me", so they fight. Fighting actually tells the level of love. When you fight, you cry, you don't listen to your "U", cares only about "Me" but we never realize that we are crying because we are fighting to save "Hum"!! So, next time when you fight, remember that "Hum" is above "U" and "Me" and to live as "Hum" sometimes fight is neccessary.".
So, I wish all the HUM to celebrate togetherness with joy and love and wish u a very Happy Anniversary!!!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Love changes Everything!!!!

It is generally said that Love changes everything in one for one's betterment. Many of us do agree as well as disagree with it. I strongly feel that yes love changes us without letting us know that we are changing.
But do we actually change?? Yes, we do change without knowing that we are changing, our habits are changing. When we love someone, we love everything about being him/her. We love watching them talk, or watching them doing anything. We tend to adapt those habits, those ways in our lives which in turn changes our outlook towards many things. When we do something wrong, it is love that supports us when weneed it and then tells you that where we were mistaken. All negatives turn into positives within a short time if handled with due love.
For me, my love has changed me alot and I also take credit in changing him alot. And I can clearly see that how better I am than before and I want to thank you my love for being there for me.