When letters turn into pages....

Well, it's long time since we have written letters on paper to our friends and family. e-mail and calling give us no space to write letters for the ones we care about. But, letters have their own charm.. There cannot be anything great than someone writing letter for you instead of e-mailing or telling it on phone..

No matter when the letter was written, it is something very precious. I still carry those letters which my friends wrote to me when i was kid. It's memorable and it's fun to read those as well. Glance at some few lines and then you get nostalgic.. Well, that's the power of letter!!!

But, what happens when the letter you write after putting in days and nights effort just turn into mere pages which the other person don't care about!! It definitely not feels good. I remember, I asked one of my friend about the letter I wrote and the he said, "Ohh!! Those pages...". It was one of the moments when I thought that people who themselves can't write a letter, do they have any right to call my letter just a bunch of pages.. Definitely not!!!

Repect the letter that someone has written it for you. It's something special someone has given you. There are very few person who are going to write letters for you.. Everyone is not lucky enough to have someone writing letter to them!! It's rightly said, "Every Dark Cloud has a Silver Lining, Every rough patch in life has a little shining."

It's time to make new memories!!!!

Many a times, we remember old days and laugh on it, smile on those good old days... but there are also some days which were good and now those memories bring tears in your eyes.. Isn't it?

I guess most of us have our own story for the same and sometimes we want to recall those days and sometimes not, but ultimately it all ends in the same way.. tears.. yes by crying or by introspecting.. Either ways I think we hurt ourselves by allowing nobody else but oneself to hurt himself/herself again. Is this correct?

No, it is not. Instead of thinking about the times which bring tears why can't we make new memories that can bring a warm smile on ours as well as our friends face. Why can't we do something that can make others smile or can make someone elses day? Of course we can, it's just we need to go and try it out and I am sure this will not be that difficult. After all memories are meant to make you smile when you look back not to ruin your future by thinking about past!

Make new memory everyday, make someone smile, make someone's day!! Theres no bigger happiness than to see our own friends, family and our heart smile! Cheers to life!!!

Tu hi to meri dost hai...

Sometimes, life is not what we expected it to be. We change our decisions because of others happiness and do things which we never expected that we will do.

I am lucky enough, I should admit that I always had someone on my side to console me and to see me when I needed support. We all go through some kind of transition phase and it becomes so difficult to pass through it that we cry, we rethink our decision and we try to work out each and every thing possible when a relationship starts breaking. But what if the other person has moved on and you are still standing there and waiting for him??? It just feels terrible...

Recently I saw something like this and I must say that it was hard to see her struggle through it. But one thing I really appreciate is her friends were there for her whenever she needed them. They were just a call away!!! And in the process of transition she also met her long lost friends who cared for her the way they used to care and told her that how important she is and what it means to be her friend...

The very thought of her friend not only kept her happy but also helped her in forgetting about her love and also made her understood how worth she is... It was rightly said that, "One day Love asked Friendship,"why are you in the world when i am here to take care of my love?" Friendship smiled and said,"to spread smiles where u leave tears". "

Friends do everything for you. They might not talk to you frequently because they know you are fine. And when you are not fine, they say,"tu hi to meri dost hai...."

The way she received her “Valentine Day’s Gift”

This is a story of girl who was living far away from her love. She got up in the morning and thought the door bell is going to ring soon and soon there will be bouquet of flowers from my valentine, telling that how much he loves me. The bell didn’t ring and soon it was time to go to office.

At office, she saw bouquets on her friends table with cards, chocolates. She felt very depressed thinking how he can forget to send a gift for me. She calls him up and asks him where her gift was? He says, don’t worry sweetheart, you will receive the best valentine gift anyone could have ever got!!! And the gift will be just like you and something that you like you a lot. She asks him whether it’s chocolate and when he confirms the same she feels elated and gets back to work.

At valentine’s eve, she sees her friends getting ready and to go out with their valentine and she waited eagerly for her gift. She thought that he might have said to make me feel good and what difference does it make if I don’t get a gift. I know he loves me and that’s more than enough.

Next day, one of their common friend, comes to her table and asks her to accompany him for coffee. She comes with him and they both talk about work, projects and current news of office. Then out of the blue her friend says, I have something to give you which are due since yesterday. Suddenly there was a spark in her eyes and she says where my chocolate is??? He gives her a big pack of chocolate, a chocolate she has never seen before and she liked it a lot. And then he says this is not your gift, your gift is here and then he takes out a beautiful opal pendant and says do you want to talk to him. Tears start flowing through her eyes and as she was trying to control herself he says he is on line, talk to him.

Throughout her walk right from office till the time she got her gift, he was online on her friend’s cell and was listening to each and every word as she spoke and then he said, “Happy Valentines Day, my love.”
No matter where you are, you are always loved the way you were loved!!!

Attractive or Beautiful????

Many a times I really wonder what does it mean when one says that you look beautiful?? Beautiful means something that is aesthetically pleasant or something that soothes your mind or sight... but does that mean that by looks one becomes beautiful??? I think, no!!!

When you see someone and say that she is beautiful, you are making a wrong comment. Beauty is not what you see. Beauty actually lays inside the person, inside his/her heart. If looks defines beauty then what is attractiveness!!

Your looks, your appearance cannot define the how beautiful you are. What defines your beautifulness is your heart, your warmth and what you are. You might not look attractive but it is you and your heart that is beautiful.

So, next time when one says.. You look beautiful.. Let me mind you it may mean that you are looking attractive.. Because you were beautiful yesterday, you are beautiful today and you will remain beautiful tomorrow!!!

Kaha gayi woh raatein.. jo karti thi mithi mithi baatein...

I guess this is the most common problem faced by all... feeling that gone are the days when we used have our hearty talks.. night outs just to talk.. having walk in a park at late night.. sleeping on the park benches and much more...

We always think that the other person has lost interest and things seem so bad that we get angry and tend to overreact at times. We think why is this happening?? At times i too think so!! But, there's a solution for everything :).. The easiest way is that you talk whatever you want to talk upon... stretch it for as much time you can and then stop talking and then try to emotionally blackmail him/her.. And then see the magic... He/she will try to make you feel as good as he/she can and you can get all the pamperness you want...

But moreover.. everyone should understand that talking is very important as this is the only way you can express yourself.. n if you will not express urself to ur partner then where will you go?? He/she is there for you, so try not to get in "Gone are the days" phase!! Enjoy togetherness :)

U, Me aur Hum....

U, Me and Hum(We).... These three words can easily describe a relationship. With the usage of these words it can be easily known that how is the relationship between two people. But how does that transition happens and how we change the usage of these words??? Lets see that...

When we are single, its only about being myself. It's always about my life, my ambitions, my thoughts and my actions. We care more of our needs, likes and dislikes than caring about others. But, when we start liking or rather loving anyone, we take care of his/her interests, atleast at the initial stages of the relationship. So, from "Me", we transform into "U" and our world starts revolving around "U". As time flies, "U" is tranformed into "Hum" as both starts understanding each other and interests of both are taken care. Or after being in a relationship for so long, habits, likes and dislikes becomes same. So, this is all about "U", "Me" aur "Hum".

But, when we are "Hum", then why do we fight? The reason is "Hum" takes care of "U" very well and when anything goes wrong "Hum" doesnt want to become "Me", so they fight. Fighting actually tells the level of love. When you fight, you cry, you don't listen to your "U", cares only about "Me" but we never realize that we are crying because we are fighting to save "Hum"!! So, next time when you fight, remember that "Hum" is above "U" and "Me" and to live as "Hum" sometimes fight is neccessary.".

So, I wish all the HUM to celebrate togetherness with joy and love and wish u a very Happy Anniversary!!!

Love changes Everything!!!!

It is generally said that Love changes everything in one for one's betterment. Many of us do agree as well as disagree with it. I strongly feel that yes love changes us without letting us know that we are changing.

But do we actually change?? Yes, we do change without knowing that we are changing, our habits are changing. When we love someone, we love everything about being him/her. We love watching them talk, or watching them doing anything. We tend to adapt those habits, those ways in our lives which in turn changes our outlook towards many things. When we do something wrong, it is love that supports us when weneed it and then tells you that where we were mistaken. All negatives turn into positives within a short time if handled with due love.

For me, my love has changed me alot and I also take credit in changing him alot. And I can clearly see that how better I am than before and I want to thank you my love for being there for me.

Love Lost.....

One of our greatest fears is that of losing someone we love. This fear plagues us from our childhood and continues to do so all through adulthood. We usually forget that the person who loves us will be there no matter what happens.

But after sometime, the feeling of love starts fading away. The question is where the love’s gone. Nobody knows it. Maybe they’ve been spending too much time together and finally have started to bore each other. Maybe he has stopped telling her about his love and she has stopped feeling it. Maybe time has made the illusions disappear and the reality has turned to be not what they both expected. Maybe there was only passion and after it’s gone nothing has left. There can be plenty of those maybes. Every misfortune has it’s own face. It may even be that nothing is over but people need to take a little rest one from the other or try to diversify their relationships. In fact when each one of a couple is willing to fight to make love stay they’ll find the way to do it.

Sometimes (and it specially refers to women) a man looses his interest to a woman because she has given up her job, interests, friends and etc. in order to become the part of his life, to be everything he needs. He doesn’t have to conquer her no more, she has stopped being a personality with her own life that he had once fallen in love with. If fact this is one of the general mistakes people do. They get too comfortable and stop fighting for each others love. And than when a partner starts packing bags they wonder where did I go wrong.

So before you feel that love is lost in your relationship, bring flowers for her someday, surprise her by calling her at odd times, by giving her a wink. Tell him that he means a lot to you. Guys also need to be pampered. I think love is never lost. With time, it matures and asks you to do what her/his heart is saying.

Love....

I want to dedicate my first Blog to know what actually LOVE means... Different meanings can be interpreted in different ways. But still, i want to know that what does this word mean for all of us.

To start with, the word Love is from Old English lufu, connected with Sanskrit lubh, 'to desire' and Latin lubere, 'to please'. Dictionary definition of 'Love' says "Love is a strong liking for someone. It's a strong passionate affection for another person ." Does that mean that this feeling for someone which we think is love can vanish away after some time? Is it possible that strong passionate affection for one becomes a burden for another? Many a times yes and many a times no. So, I think this is not how we define Love.

I think following lines on Love, which are from The Holy Book Bible defines Love so easily that when one goes through those line one can feel contemplated within self. According to Bible, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things. If one doesn't get this feeling with whom one shares a relationship, then it is not love, I think its one way of carrying a relationship in the tag named "Love".