Tuesday, April 15, 2008

U, Me aur Hum....

U, Me and Hum(We).... These three words can easily describe a relationship. With the usage of these words it can be easily known that how is the relationship between two people. But how does that transition happens and how we change the usage of these words??? Lets see that...
When we are single, its only about being myself. It's always about my life, my ambitions, my thoughts and my actions. We care more of our needs, likes and dislikes than caring about others. But, when we start liking or rather loving anyone, we take care of his/her interests, atleast at the initial stages of the relationship. So, from "Me", we transform into "U" and our world starts revolving around "U". As time flies, "U" is tranformed into "Hum" as both starts understanding each other and interests of both are taken care. Or after being in a relationship for so long, habits, likes and dislikes becomes same. So, this is all about "U", "Me" aur "Hum".
But, when we are "Hum", then why do we fight? The reason is "Hum" takes care of "U" very well and when anything goes wrong "Hum" doesnt want to become "Me", so they fight. Fighting actually tells the level of love. When you fight, you cry, you don't listen to your "U", cares only about "Me" but we never realize that we are crying because we are fighting to save "Hum"!! So, next time when you fight, remember that "Hum" is above "U" and "Me" and to live as "Hum" sometimes fight is neccessary.".
So, I wish all the HUM to celebrate togetherness with joy and love and wish u a very Happy Anniversary!!!

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