Getting used to someone so much that you mistake it for love, is as common as infatuation!
When you actually sit down to think whether or not you love him, there are greater chances you don't! The good news is that, once you decide to figure things out for yourself, you are actually taking a very positive step ahead.
If it's love after all, there's nothing much to worry about. But if you've been dating the same guy over and over just because you are so used to him that you've fallen into a comfort zone and don't want to break away from it, think again. It might just help to take some time off him and see where your feelings stand.
If he moves on, well it's time for you to take another assessing look at the whole situation. It might not be a great idea to hold on to him, just because you can't imagine your life otherwise. Maybe it was never meant to be, and maybe, there's true love really in store for you and you just have to break away and find it. It really is not worth getting way too worked up on his account.
While it's wonderful to have someone to go out with all the time, it could actually help far more if you spent some time alone and not in a supposed relationship that's nothing more than just filling your evenings.
Always wanted to join that salsa class or bring home an aquarium having Aki n Nikki? Now is the time to do it! Not only will a hobby keep you meaningfully occupied, it will also take your mind off any depressing and lonely thoughts. Once you start viewing your life as yours alone, independent of your connection with him, you'll find many more fresh perspectives than you asked for!
Now it's up to you to decide whether what you have is true love or force of habit!
9 comments:
good one sammy. so very true of so many of us...
Infact u just wrote exactly what i often thought n was planning to post in near future :)
True indeed :)
lol.. surely bloggers mind think alike.. :P
Hey its "Saumyalogy" !!!! :P
Very well written :)
But I beg to differ here.....
Then hw will u define love?
Cant say u r right or wrong as its ur feeling but dunno........
2morrow u might feel differently for somebody else....:)
i have blog written on Love too... see my earlier blogs :P
sammy and uska love gyaan :)
oye.. kal se class me shuru kar de...
lol.. not a bad idea.. naya subject introduce karte hai.. saumyalogy... :)
Great one saumya...
You have perfectly explained the actual meaning of love and how its different from infatuation.
As you have said love should be allowed to flow freely. If the person who you love moves on, feeling depressed and sorry is not the solution but should take this as positive sign. May be some one else who has actually been made for you is waiting for you in your way.
Love cannot be hold in shackles, if its true love it would come back to you.
Bravo Saumya, Good work !!! :)
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